Mo'Tolani Abike

I’m here to help you rediscover your true identity and walk whole.

Hi! I’m MO'TOLANI ABIKE

Learn More About My Journey

From questioning your worth to standing fully in your voice, I’ve walked that road. Now, let’s get you where you’re meant to be, with clarity, courage, and a deep sense of who you are.

35 "Thanks to Mo'Tolani, I overcame imposter syndrome and finally landed the leadership role I’d been dreaming about. Her guidance is practical, supportive, and effective."

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Picture this: A 30-something Mo’Tolani, eager to find purpose and direction.

HOW I GOT HERE

Then life happened—second-guessing, silent insecurities, and that inner whisper: “Are you enough?” I was. But it took healing to believe it.

My Story

Where I Am Now:

Today, I’ve found a new version of me, one that isn’t performing, but fully present. There’s joy now. Joy in using my voice. Joy in helping others find theirs. Whether through writing, speaking, or coaching, I show up as the woman I was always meant to be, bold, whole, and free. I no longer shrink to fit in rooms. I take up space with purpose. And the best part? I get to walk alongside others as they rise too, reclaiming their identity, rediscovering their rhythm, and rewriting their story from a place of truth.

How It All Started:

It started in an environment that slowly broke me. I was surrounded by control, resentment, and a quiet hostility toward my faith in Christ. The very essence of who I was, my style, my voice, my faith became a problem. To keep peace, I began to shrink. I changed how I dressed. I stopped speaking up. I second-guessed everything. In trying to save my marriage, I began to lose myself. I became who they needed me to be, not who I truly was. A people-pleaser. A shadow. I know what it feels like to be in a room full of people and still feel invisible. But that version of me didn’t stay lost, she began to fight her way back.

The turning point came in prayer. I was weary, broken, and searching for answers when God whispered something unexpected: “The peacock is not proud.” That moment cracked something open in me. I began to see that my quietness wasn’t weakness, that beauty wasn’t rebellion, and that confidence wasn’t arrogance. Slowly, I climbed out of the pit of people-pleasing and fear. One step at a time, I started reclaiming my identity not the version shaped by pressure, but the one rooted in truth. That journey is now a message, and that message is becoming a book. Anticipate The Peacock Is Not Proud—coming Spring 2026.

The Turning Point:

What I Stand For

My work is anchored in identity, restoration, and self-awareness.

No more living disconnected. It’s time to be still, pay attention, and truly meet the you God always saw, even when you couldn’t.

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It’s not just about getting ahead but about how you get there.
I coach from a place of truth, wholeness, and alignment. If that speaks to you, we’re already walking the same path.

No more questioning your reflection. You are enough and I’ll walk with you as you rise into your full identity.

No more shrinking to fit in. Your real self is your superpower and I’ll help you lead from that sacred place.

No more masking the pain. Wholeness is possible and I’ll help you heal the parts you’ve hidden and return to yourself.

My Journey to Helping Women Rise with Identity and Clarity

Long before the titles and platforms, I was empowering women—starting with my own sisters. As the first of ten children, I learned early how to guide, protect, and uplift. My leadership journey didn’t begin in a boardroom; it began in my father’s house—where I discovered the quiet strength of responsibility, the weight of example, and the beauty of serving others with heart.

A trip down memory lane

2014

The Spark: When The Journey Took Flight

After my unexpected separation from a 29-year marriage, I realized it could happen to anyone—even the strongest of us. That painful moment became a spark. A fire lit within me to help others heal, rediscover themselves, and rise again.

2014

Early Career: Walking In Purpose

Actively serving in ministry, I began mentoring women beyond church walls, equipping them to thrive in their careers using timeless biblical principles. What started as obedience became a movement: raising voices, shifting mindsets, and building women who live and lead from truth.

2016

Major Breakthrough: When Impact Spoke Loud

One of my mentees launched an online ministry that grew to over a million followers. That breakthrough didn’t just reflect her growth, it amplified our message!

2017

Expanding My Reach: Structuring Growth Systems

In 2017, I began expanding my reach—no longer just pouring out, but building intentionally. I started hosting more structured classes, creating room for deeper growth. What once flowed informally began to take shape as a clear, Spirit-led assignment.

2019

Launching Out!

I launched Single Again, Life Makeover, and Turn the Page—programs created to guide mission-driven leaders through transitions. It was more than content; it was a calling. Each session became a space to rediscover identity, heal, and step into purpose.

2020

Turn the Page VIP Day!

This is your day—private, powerful, and tailored just for you. Turn the Page VIP Day is a one-on-one intensive for mission-driven leaders ready to pause, reset, and step boldly into their next chapter with clarity, courage, and identity.

2023

Building a Community of Mission-Driven Leaders

Beyond programs and sessions, a community was forming—leaders with conviction, vision, and fire in their bones. I began intentionally gathering mission-driven men and women, creating spaces where healing meets strategy, and identity births bold, purpose-led leadership that transforms lives.

2024

Continous Learning & Growth

I remained a student, of the Word, of people, of purpose. Each season brought new wisdom and fresh oil. With every course I took and every room I entered, God expanded my capacity to serve, lead, and multiply with intention.

Why I Do This Work

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I’ve watched brilliant, heart-led leaders shrink to fit rooms they were called to transform. I do this work to awaken identity, restore confidence, and help them lead from wholeness

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My mission? To shift the narrative. I want you to rise, not by burning out, but by rooting deeper. No more pressure to perform—just purpose, confidence, and grace as you lead from wholeness.

What Clients Are Saying

— Teresa Rivera

The clients I’ve coached aren’t just getting results, they’re leading with confidence, setting intentional goals, and waking up fulfilled. They’re building careers and lives they’re proud of without the burnout, the pretending, or losing who they truly are.

"Working with Mo'Tolani was like having my personal leadership playbook. Her strategies were practical and empowering, and my career trajectory has never been better."

— Chioma Agege, Realtor

“Mo'tolani completely shifted my mindset. I went from being the quietest voice in the room to confidently leading meetings. I’ve never felt more in control of my career path.”

— Tinu Hamilton, CEO Our Wealthy Place

“Before Mo'Tolani, I was stuck—both in my career and in my head. She helped me see my own value, and now, I’m leading a team of Intentional people and loving every minute of it.”

Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you’re done second-guessing and ready to step boldly into who you’re becoming, I’m here to walk with you. Together, we’ll clarify your voice, reclaim your rhythm, and build a life and work you’re truly proud of.

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