Despite all we have been told and learned, do you know that?

The Peacock Is Not Proud!

How often have we been told to be less of a dreamer and to "calm down" when we show such passion for our LORD and His unique calling for our lives?
It's time to rethink the customs and perceptions of people around us. Take another look at you. Your innate desires.The reason you talk and walk the way you do. The way you show up. Is it possible that there's a unique assignment given to you by the Creator that needs to be understood and lived out with personal clarity, understanding, and humility?
It's time to understand your uniqueness and embrace your authentic self unapologetically.
Here's where to start.


It is only going about its natural life and giving glory to God! 


This bird is magnificent and wonderfully created, yet seen as proud. Even though it only brings glory to its Maker, it is seen through a fallen man's eyes and equated with a fallen angel.

Man's perception attempts to taint and destroy the original purpose—no wonder we are bombarded online with standards of beauty and success that only end up in chaos. We lose sleep at night, trying to measure up with those chasing shadows.

Thing is.
You are unique.

We have been lied to.

if you're wondering...

Who Is This Book For?

Just as a chef considers the tastes and preferences of her guest when creating a dish, I have paid careful attention to satisfy your delectable palate and confidently present this to YOU.

The book is for you.

If you have found it hard to reconcile your inner yearnings from God with what society expects of you, this is for you.

If you are more interested in pleasing The One who preserved your life till now for His purpose alone, then this book is for you.

If you have a nagging feeling that what you dream about has never been done by anyone of your race, gender, or educational background, then this book is for you. 

If you constantly hear voices telling you you are too "forward" (an African saying), this book is for you.
If you have been in the cycle of pleasing everyone while ignoring your passion and purpose, this book is for you.

Kicking people's addiction is undoubtedly for you if you feel lost in a relationship or system.

If you have conditioned yourself to accept the negative words and thoughts thrown at you that have stunted a complete expression, then this is for you.

If you want to appear before your Maker and hear "well done." Indeed, this book is for you. 

To sum it all up, you need this book if you want to live your authentic life from a divine perspective with absolutely no apology at all.

Take a hard look and ask yourself: are you living below your full potential or expressing your true self?

I know you have a longing to rewrite chapters of your life story so you can live with joy and confidence, so it's time to ignore the hard stares and misconceived ideas of those who know nothing about you but have influenced you negatively


The Peacock is Not Proud

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In-Depth Life Lessons with Your Favorite Leaders

A series of videos where I bare it all, sharing how I turned my setback into fuel and rediscovered my true identity in Christ. Steps I took to setting healthy boundaries, staying present and focused as a solo parent amid societal judgment, recovering my self-confidence, and forging ahead with His plans for me with intentionality.


Over the last 38 years of walking with Jesus Christ as my personal Lord and Savior, I have seen so many issues come up repeatedly with people who desire meaningful lives but find themselves constrained by the limiting beliefs they grew up with.
I first wrote this book over ten years ago and thought it was complete; little did I know that I had only scratched the surface at that time.

Now at 60, I see the signature of the Great Architect and appreciate the wait. This book helps you embrace God's unfailing love and permits you to prosper. 

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As an avid reader and adventurous child, I learned early in life that wisdom is the principal thing. I pray for it daily and love to share what has helped me navigate life successfully through thick and thin. Covering relationships, health, and spirituality, you'll find rich insights for victorious living in every episode. Start listening here 

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